And the white rabbit said, follow me down the hole and I did

My sister has nicknamed me "the Quilting Ostrich" a name that is very be-fitting for me... I do bury my head daily, in my crafts, take a day at a time and am very happy with this agreement I have made for myself. You see, having and going through cancer treatment can and is overwhelming... But if I'm doing my crafts...I'm thinking wow this is great to be able to be creative... But if I'm doing "normal" stuff...cleaning, cooking, going to the store, etc...I'm thinking this is hard to do with cancer.... The reality sets in and then I am sad... On the other hand...my family does like it when I cook, me too... and its hard to argue a clean house and clean clothes.... Yet............"what's that?" I see and hear you material, yes!! lets do a project.............

Expectations from Others

It seems to me that when we expect others to act in a certain way, the way we expect, its trouble.

Hurt feels are sure to follow.  What I wonder is it wrong to have expectations?

I believe we all view the world from our own perception.  I sometimes try to look at the situation from "their" view and sometimes it works so you just agree to disagree and sometimes I just don't get it.

Relationships, what is it that bonds them together. Something has to click or resonate that holds them together.  So when people drift apart is that because its gone, how long should you hold on, waiting for something to click again?

Families..is it just the blood that holds them together after awhile?

Judgemental..... its a characteristic I dislike the most, and I find that I am becoming very judgemental...must stop

Time...I'm obsessed with not wasting time, but.......what who is to say what is wasting time,  writing in a blog might be concerned by some to be wasting time. I'm going stop now and bake some chocolate chip cookies....No one can claim that is a waste of time!!!!